During the divorce trial, my husband scoffed, “She’s so clumsy, always falling over.” My mother-in-law nodded, feigning sympathy. I stood up, gently pulling back my outer garment to reveal old bruises running down my ribs. The forensic pathologist said they perfectly matched the spacing of the fingers of the person who had choked me. Then my lawyer played the recording of the night they held me down on the floor.
The first lie my husband told in court was that I bruised easily. The second was that he had never laid a hand on me. […]